“Parents, picture your children 30 years from now and ask yourself: ‘What would I want my child to say about how I was with her other parent? What lessons would I want my child to have learned through our co-parenting relationship? How did I celebrate the part of him that is the other parent?’ By visioning like this, parents can create a powerful guidepost for navigating through the healing process. It can serve as the inspiration they need when they feel they don’t have it within themselves.”