
On a recent episode of "Co-Parenting Matters", a co-parent called in with a question for our guest, Christina McGhee, about co-parenting with an addict:
How can a co-parent honor their child's need to have a positive relationship with both parents, while also being mindful with the potential impact of a parent's addiction on the children?
Because we only had a few moments left in the show, Christina was able to mention a few resources, but thankfully the caller followed up with Christina via email. Below is Christina's response, and we hope that her advice and the resources she recommends will be a help to other families facing a similar struggle.
Dear K,
My heart goes out to you. Dealing with divorce is hard enough all on its own. When issues involving addiction, recovery and relapse get thrown into the mix, it can some times feel like you and your children are riding a never ending emotional rollercoaster. Take heart, there is light at the end of the tunnel.
From your email it sounds like you’ve made a lot of excellent choices about how you have handled the situation. I applaud your commitment to honoring your children's need to have a positive relationship with their Dad. However, I also understand your worries about the long-term impact your ex’s addiction will have on your children.
Below I’ve listed a couple of recommendations and resources for parents dealing with less than ideal situations.
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