In Deesha’s interview with Rachel Sarah for a recent MomLogic article, she mentioned that she and her fiancé, JB, have been doing a lot of communicating, scheduling, and advance planning ever since the beginning of their long-distance relationship, and even moreso since they became engaged and look to unite their families.  At the center of all these logistics are the children’s schedules and the logistics of two shared custody arrangements.  As one of JB’s daughter’s once observed, “Your relationship is ruled by the calendar.”  Out of the mouths of babes…